Stand firm in your femininity
Stand firm in your femininity. There is absolutely nothing wrong with the way women are constructed. We represent life, love, and light. Why would you want to be anything else? These days I see entirely too many women bashing each other both figuratively and literally over nothing. Okay, she has something you don't. You have something she doesn't as well. Both of those things are the same. Both of you are different and come from your very own sector of light and love. With your very own special attributes and characteristics.
I know I haven't been living the longest, but I have never met two women that are exactly the same. Sometimes we may have things in common with another, but when it comes down to the core and the foundation, we all differ from one another.
Let's take a moment to go back in time when women didn't have the "rights" and "freedom" that we have now. (These things are in quotations for a reason, but that's for another time.) How hard did they all work in attempts to get us where we are now, just for you to "hate" her for something irrelevant to either one of your lives? That thing (what ever it is) I can guarantee won't matter a year from now, and if it does maybe she's not the problem.
Something else that has been bothering me lately, is the story of the young teenaged girl who was beaten to death in school over a boy. (How did this happen in school, where were the adults?- Also for another time.) I was so disgusted! So you mean to tell me that she lost her life over a boy that these girls will not even be thinking about in the next 5 years, let alone the next 5 months? I'm baffled by the madness at this point. I call it what it is, insanity. When did any of this become acceptable? So much so that it just keeps happening. Getting worst and worst over the years. I can't even count how many times I was faced with this exact issue myself as a little girl. Over a dude that I literally didn't and still don't think about. Not even in the slightest manner. Was it worth it?
Now let's skim over the females that want to be "harder" than intended for us to be. Please do not mistake what I'm actually saying for me saying that we are to be weak, because that is not the case. We are supposed to have a backbone and mind of our own, but we are nurtures, we are the mothers of life. Being aware of and fully accepting of your weaknesses is the strongest thing anyone could do. I'm just saying recognize all of the beautiful things about yourself. Love the hell out of those things! As much as sexism exists I'm confused as to why some of you choose to add fuel to the fire. Your friend not liking her has nothing to do with you and vise versa. I'm an adult supposedly surrounded by other adults, yet those scenarios mentioned sound as if I'm surrounded by children. As much responsibility as some of us have, with children of our own, the last thing we need to be worried about is putting another woman down. At some point, we have to grow up. Learning to prioritize. Belittling another woman shouldn't even be on your list of things to do, let alone at the top of it.
Any opportunity I get to lift another woman up, I'm taking. We are so amazing, in every way imaginable. Day in and day out we're faced with hardships that we do so with our shoulders back, backs straights, and chin up just to eventually have that moment to self and shed that tear or two that we were holding in all week. Some of us are fortunate enough to have one friend or another that we can call to cry it out with us. Let's all be that uplifting and positive energy each other needs to go out into the world every day. Suited up in elegance and grace to be at our absolute best. We are all queens adding jewels to our crowns daily. Who are you to try to remove any from another woman's? Live every day being a better version of yourself than you were yesterday. Lift your fellow queen up with kind words of encouragement. United we would literally rule the world, but it starts with you.
I know I haven't been living the longest, but I have never met two women that are exactly the same. Sometimes we may have things in common with another, but when it comes down to the core and the foundation, we all differ from one another.
Let's take a moment to go back in time when women didn't have the "rights" and "freedom" that we have now. (These things are in quotations for a reason, but that's for another time.) How hard did they all work in attempts to get us where we are now, just for you to "hate" her for something irrelevant to either one of your lives? That thing (what ever it is) I can guarantee won't matter a year from now, and if it does maybe she's not the problem.
Something else that has been bothering me lately, is the story of the young teenaged girl who was beaten to death in school over a boy. (How did this happen in school, where were the adults?- Also for another time.) I was so disgusted! So you mean to tell me that she lost her life over a boy that these girls will not even be thinking about in the next 5 years, let alone the next 5 months? I'm baffled by the madness at this point. I call it what it is, insanity. When did any of this become acceptable? So much so that it just keeps happening. Getting worst and worst over the years. I can't even count how many times I was faced with this exact issue myself as a little girl. Over a dude that I literally didn't and still don't think about. Not even in the slightest manner. Was it worth it?
Now let's skim over the females that want to be "harder" than intended for us to be. Please do not mistake what I'm actually saying for me saying that we are to be weak, because that is not the case. We are supposed to have a backbone and mind of our own, but we are nurtures, we are the mothers of life. Being aware of and fully accepting of your weaknesses is the strongest thing anyone could do. I'm just saying recognize all of the beautiful things about yourself. Love the hell out of those things! As much as sexism exists I'm confused as to why some of you choose to add fuel to the fire. Your friend not liking her has nothing to do with you and vise versa. I'm an adult supposedly surrounded by other adults, yet those scenarios mentioned sound as if I'm surrounded by children. As much responsibility as some of us have, with children of our own, the last thing we need to be worried about is putting another woman down. At some point, we have to grow up. Learning to prioritize. Belittling another woman shouldn't even be on your list of things to do, let alone at the top of it.
Any opportunity I get to lift another woman up, I'm taking. We are so amazing, in every way imaginable. Day in and day out we're faced with hardships that we do so with our shoulders back, backs straights, and chin up just to eventually have that moment to self and shed that tear or two that we were holding in all week. Some of us are fortunate enough to have one friend or another that we can call to cry it out with us. Let's all be that uplifting and positive energy each other needs to go out into the world every day. Suited up in elegance and grace to be at our absolute best. We are all queens adding jewels to our crowns daily. Who are you to try to remove any from another woman's? Live every day being a better version of yourself than you were yesterday. Lift your fellow queen up with kind words of encouragement. United we would literally rule the world, but it starts with you.
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